What I Discover about “How” to Get Results with Goals & Priorities

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There is a definable difference in goal setting and getting your priorities straight.  This is eye opening advice is about achieving the success you deserve.

 

A goal is a benchmark, the pictured result; a priority is the mindset and the avenue used to reach a goal.  They go hand in hand in the success progression.

 

With the Secret and the Law of Attraction there has been a wide scope of successes with even more failures in fulfilling wants and desires. 

 

There are a lot of myths about the ‘how’ of getting what it is we ‘think’ we want.  One myth is thinking that certain goals are selfish, I call it self-care.  Because let’s face it – if you don’t about take care of yourself who else will? 

 

Defining Goals

Let’s clarify some differences in what we perceive as a goal.

There are two types of goals, Emotional and Physical.

  1. The emotional type:
    • I want to be rich
    • I want a new house
    • I want to be healthy

An emotional goal is ‘wishing’ andwanting.  It has no benchmark.  Like saying ‘I want to be rich’.  So What? Not to disregard the emotion, but it is what it is, until you define it.

 

A physical goal is a want or desire that has been defined and can be acted upon.  

  1. The physical type:

·         I intend to make $5,000 a month.

·         I intend to be smoke free.

·         I intend to build a retirement fund.

·         I intend to be healthy, Etc.

 

See the difference? Want versus Intent. To validate the meaning, ask and answer some relevant questions. WWHWW.  Why? Who? How? What? When?  Read the book ‘The Power Of Intention” by Dr. Wayne Dyer.

 

Here’s a big one; ‘I want to be rich![emotional] Q:

·         Why do I want to be rich?

·         Who, besides myself, will benefit?

·         How would my life be different?

·         What tools do I need?

·         When will it happen?

 

The Answers change the focus to the physical part of the goal:

·         Why?  =security

·         Who?  =Family

·         How?  =Avenues

·         What? =Amounts

·         When? =set dates

 

The statement ‘I want to be healthy’ [emotional] 

As it’s written, is a ‘want’, it has no definition until you ask & answer:

  1.  
    • Why do I want to be healthy?
    • Who will benefit from it?
    • How will I get from here to there
    • What does it mean to me?
    • When will it happen?

It has no specific aim unless or until you NAME it.  The defining moment comes when you can say:

  • ‘I intend to be smoke free’,
  • ‘I intend to weigh — pounds’, etc.

 

It’s only when you do the Q&A, then take aim, when you begin to see the difference.

 

 

GETTING YOUR PRIORITIES STRAIGHT

 

Priorities are avenues or road maps.  With out them it has the appearance of a three ring circus. What do you need to do First?

What is the most important thing that you want to do? wwhww

1.      Make money,[get a job, start a biz]

2.      Be healthy

3.      Help others/family

Break each goal down in order of priority. Then Start take ‘one defined goal’, break it down, do the Q&A again, prioritize it, what do I need to do?  Figure it out. ‘You’ve only just begun’!

 

What is churning in your stomach that makes you want this or that?  What is going on in your life that makes you think you are ready to do what it takes to have what you want? 

 

Another MAJOR myth is thinking you don’t need to write down goals and priorities.  **Most likely you’re not serious about succeeding if you are not doing this!  

 

Writing them down makes it more real. Remember, you’ll be working with several lists. Put in on a dream board. Make them the object of your affection.  Ask the questions!! Keep a journal.

 

Esther and Jerry Hicks said it best “My financial Decline Will Not Elevate the Impoverished”   Use that same phrase with different words “My lack of health will not benefit myself or anyone”.  MY LACK of any thing will not help anyone.”  You cannot contribute what you don’t have. 

 

Setting goals and priorities for yourself is about self responsibility and when you use this simple formula, you’ll change your results & exceed your goals.

 

NAME IT, CLAIM IT. DO IT! 

 

©Copyright 2008 by Sharon Morin

www.myeazincome.com

Hot Homemade Apple Pie and Abundant Living System

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You may be wondering what one has to do with the other and here’s my story and I’m sticking to it.

 

Who doesn’t like hot homemade apple pie?

Who wouldn’t like living an abundant life with cash gifts, like those from the Abundant Living System?

 

It all begins with an idea, a desire, a want or a dream.

 

It’s like a day you were at grandma’s house and she’s off in the kitchen baking pies and you’re out on the porch peaking through the back door; it’s about to make you crazy with the aromas and your mouth is watering and the lord awful waiting - and then - and then - the anticipation of waiting is almost over.

 

She finally motions you in to the table and gives you a piece of that hot homemade apple pie in front of you and then tops it off with a big dip of vanilla ice cream.  That smile on your face as those spiced smells drift by your nose, you think you’ve gone to heaven when that sweet taste of satisfaction touches your tongue and rolls around your mouth and with every bite it makes you burst with pleasure.  Aha, It has been worth the wait.

 

That’s how it feels when you get involved with cash gifting. It’s shear delight.

 

But cash gifting, like hot homemade apple pie, does not happen by magic.  It’s not a ‘shake and bake’ type of recipe, there’s a natural order of things that need to happen to have good old fashion results. 

 

The only ingredient in cash gifting that is different than the pie is;

  • ‘A willingness to give’ has to be there. I’ll call this the crust(the trust) that holds the pie together.

 

The rest are all similar:

 

  1. A desire or the want - How Bad do you want it?
  2. A belief that it can be, has to be present-you have to see it, smell it, and even taste the end results.
  3. You need a recipe to follow
  4. The ingredients have to be gathered
  5. Preparation is a must. [The hard stuff] you know, the picking, the sorting of the good apples from the bad, washing them, peeling them.
  6. Then putting it all together.
  7. Then finally there is the Time/the waiting it will take to bake it.

 

If you miss any of the steps or omit any of the ingredients, you may not have a successful outcome, whether you are baking a pie or cash gifting.

 

Now, let’s just picture the same thing when participating in cash gifting. It’s really no different. You’ll begin to see the connection. 

 

  1. Must have a desire, want or need to have cash come into your life.  Just how much do you want it to happen?
  2. A willingness to give before you receive.
  3. Come to a point that you believe and trust it’s possible.
  4. Find & chose a plan like Abundant Living System, learn how it’s done.
  5. Get the needed seed money to start and do it
  6. Prepare your self – sort and sift - SWSWSW.
  7. Then You wait. And Repeat as needed.

 

Can you smell that sweet aroma of success?  Can you see it happening?

 

That’s how it feels every time the delivery person comes to your door with another envelope of cash.  ‘Your piece of the pie has arrived’!

 

Get It while it’s hot, you’re gonna love it!

 

“You know you just Gotta’ have a piece of that Pie!”

 

By ©SharMor/Sharon M.

http://www.youcreateabundance.com

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Can You Handle the Truth……………………..

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About Gifting that is?

If You’re Worried About Whether You Can Handle Cash Gifting, Relax

Let’s be TRUTHFUL

are you happy going to work every day to a job you can’t stand, or maybe you’d be satisfied eeking out a living trying to sell widgets to people who could care less about them? Maybe you are happy with what you are doing but what kind of job security do you think you have in today’s economy?

Truth: Did you know that 90% of the problems in relationships are caused by money problems?

This covers more than husbands and wives where when both are working it still isn’t enough; it includes single parents and children. It includes retirees, the disabled, those on fixed incomes, those with no income. It’s in the work place and any relationship where lack creates the need to work two jobs or beg, borrow. You know it’s true.

Truth: You know you want to make a real change to something that really works?
Imagine how good it’s going to feel when you get cash delivered right to your mailbox. You go down to the bank, make a few deposits, do a few errands, pay a few bills, donate to your favorite charity, come home, and work at what you love to do and when you want. Won’t that be great?

And here’s some other TRUTHS

  • students can do this.
  • housewives do this
  • retired people do it,
  • disabled people do it, and
  • People out of jobs do it
  • single mothers or dads, and

    Heck, it doesn’t matter if you’re employed full-time, part-time, or you don’t even have a job…as long as you’re 18 and have a sincere desire to make money, you can join cash gifting!

     

     

     

    Get your free report about gifting www.youcreateabundance.com and

     

     

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    Seed Money and Gifting

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    Believe it or not, not everyone wants to be a millionaire!

    Oh, the words coming out of their mouth may be saying
    that’s what they think they want but:

    • First of all, most people simply don’t believe that it’s
    possible.

    • Second, a million dollars is a figure most people can’t
    comprehend.

    • Third, if they’re honest about it, too few want the
    responsibility of it.

    If I did a survey most will say they want enough money to
    have a comfortable lifestyle, pay their bills, enough to
    lessen the stress of our insane economic times etc. Our
    happiness doesn’t come from the dollars we have, it comes
    from the satisfaction we feel, being able to do the things
    that it [money] does. Whether that’s paying a bill, sending
    the kids to college, helping aging parents or go on
    vacation. It’s simply a medium we use for exchange.

    You see the average American will have manually earned a
    million dollars in their life time. Here comes the rub,
    receiving, keeping, and the frequency of regenerating a
    million dollars, that is the key.

    I’ve heard the saying ‘the movement of money creates
    wealth’ at first I laughed and commented, ‘Yeah, it moves
    alright, from my hand to the bill collectors hand.”

    There is an obscure book written by John Hosher in 1960,
    titled, “Seed Money - The Law of the Tenfold Return and How
    it Works” and later rewritten by Jon Speller. In those
    writings I discovered an age old formula based of my
    subject of gifting and seed planting.

    Like ‘the Secret’ and ‘The Law of attraction’ there was
    also a formula that some attempted keep a secret from the
    masses, and that was the principles and formula behind ‘the
    Law of the Tenfold Return’ or ‘Seed Money’ or in today’s
    terms it’s called ‘Gifting’

    Even though there was an attempt to keep it secret, there
    is nothing secret about it. If you are of the Christian
    faith you can go to the index of your Bible and look up the
    words giving, gifts, receiving and you can find it in both
    the old and new testaments. John H also mentions that Jesus
    knew about seed money as told in the story of the loaves
    and fishes.

    There has been a lot of bad press on gifting programs,
    calling them illegal or scams. Those who would diminish
    this activity simply don’t ‘get it’. Perhaps, they thought
    it was magic, but it’s not. It is a proven formula with
    principles that need to be followed for one to see results
    from it.

    Giving/Gifting has been around in all societies for as long
    as history has been told. It has been used by individuals
    as well as organizations very effectively. The biggest
    difference in then and now has to do with attitude. In our
    modern society we have been lead to believe we can have
    something for nothing and do nothing to get something
    .
    There are NO FREE lunches!

    The message that John Hosher was attempting to get across
    with the ‘Seed Money’ formula was that it is an ‘expected
    return’, making it different than just giving to be
    righteous, or tithing. When have the opportunity to read
    the book you’ll note many famous and wealthy people who
    applied the formula and are in our history books today.

    The question now, is why aren’t more people practicing it?

    Let’s get one thing clear ‘seed money’ isn’t the ‘Law of
    Attraction’; even though it has similar characteristics,
    ‘seed money’ is a defined application. There is no mooning
    over, no wishin’, no hopin’, it has a formula to it.

    Seed Money is an expected return.

    John uses farmers as an example. They know what they want
    to harvest so they plant the like ‘seeds’. They don’t plant
    corn seeds and expect green beans at harvest.

    The parallel or common denominator with the ‘law of
    attraction’ and ‘seed money’ is attitude and belief.

    The greatest thing about giving, gifting and planting seed
    money is; no one can stop you from doing it, No One!

    Anyone can practice this! No matter their age, gender,
    education, economic level. The only thing stopping you is
    you and not knowing the formula on how it works.

    You can practice this activity alone or you can have a
    buddy system. I personally like the buddy system. There is
    an element of fun and delight that you can share when you
    see that it works. 

    You can build a fortune using Seed Money/Gifting.

    One last thing, there’s a saying that goes, ‘Be careful
    what you ask for, you may get it!”

    I’d like to add this, “Be careful HOW you ask for it, you
    may get that too” Attitude is everything.

    ©Written by Sharon Morin www.seedmoneyinmotion.info

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